What Will U Do If It Was U??

[ejibond]

It’s been seven years since Agatha got married without a child. She was quite lucky she was married to a good family because her in-laws never for once questioned her inability to have kids. Also, her husband stood by her through it all, even when doctors said her chances of conceiving were very slim.

However, one ugly night, men of the underworld came knocking at the Nelsons’ home and they took away all they had… and raped Agatha. That very night, everything changed in the Nelson family.

Few weeks later, she realized she was pregnant and all hell was let loose by her husband. He wanted Agatha to go flush the bastard out, but Agatha felt it was her only chance of ever having a child. Agatha was torn between keeping the pregnancy and having an abortion.

[Smartfrank]

If I were Agatha, I wouldn' abort the baby. If  a woman, married for seven good years without conceiving a child finally conceives one under whatever circumstance,it should be viewed as an act of mercy from God. So why abort an act of mercy? As the story goes, it could be her only chance. What if she damages her womb or at worst loses her life during the abortion. Besides abortion is sinful and should be condemned completely

[ELDINO]

It’s been seven years since Agatha got married without a child. She was quite lucky she was married to a good family because her in-laws never for once questioned her inability to have kids. Also, her husband stood by her through it all, even when doctors said her chances of conceiving were very slim.

However, one ugly night, men of the underworld came knocking at the Nelsons’ home and they took away all they had… and raped Agatha. That very night, everything changed in the Nelson family.

Few weeks later, she realized she was pregnant and all hell was let loose by her husband. He wanted Agatha to go flush the bastard out, but Agatha felt it was her only chance of ever having a child. Agatha was torn between keeping the pregnancy and having an abortion.

 Dis 1 where u kum post  hmn........sorry i was clearing my thoat, pics,don tell am b/4 wahala go burst.Now was Agatha's husband not fecund dat they wif tot it was her golden opportunity 2 carry a child after being RAPED.Or was she herself not sterile;betterstill,could it all have been a MIRACLE!

[ejibond]

  Dis 1 where u kum post ur hmn........sorry i was clearing my thoat, pics,u mar don tell am b/4 wahala go burst.Now was Agatha's husband not fecund dat they wif tot it was her golden opportunity 2 carry a child after being RAPED.Or was she herself not sterile;betterstill,could it all have been a MIRACLE!

I no understand this ur post atal atal..
make u post waiting we go understand.

[gentleemmy]

I no understand this ur post atal atal..
make u post waiting we go understand.

I'm sure he was sleeping and typing

[gentleemmy]

@ poster
Firstly, I want to know if the fault (non-conception) was the man or woman's fault.

I think keeping the baby is the best option

[shyman]

I dont know how u guys see this stuff ooh....
A man's wife ws raped!!!!!!
and you guyz say keep the child?
God and miracle are no excuses..
Think of Abraham and Sarah's story.. If God wants them
to have children they will, certainly in an ideal way...
Anytime the man sees the wife child he will remember the rape.
I think every thing that has got to do with the rape should be terminated..

[ejibond]

@SHYMAN...U jst reasoned like d woman's husband.

As for me,I think the woman shud keep the pregnancy cos it might be her only chance of having a child.
For the husband,if he can bear the fact that his wife was raped &still lived with her,then he shud bear it and accept the child.
Again,I dnt think the robbers that raped her go around raping women,it all happend for a purpose so if she venture tamper with the pregnancy, eeh! anything wey she see make she take am and no ever say "IF TO SAY I KNW"

[Wando]

well, this is a hard one. But in my own opinion, i think commiting an abortion means murdering an unborn child. Will she kill her child simply bcos it was unexpected and unwanted...Huh...Sorry it was wanted only that it came from an unwanted source. Also dont 4get that evry disappointment is a blessing in disguise. Anyway, i undastand how the man feels but it has happened. No turning back the hands of time.

[ELDINO]

I no understand this ur post atal atal..
make u post waiting we go understand.

Ah! Forgive me,na excess shark!!

[adim2]

Huh, This is a very toff call. But let be human here and forget sentiment, for those of us that clamour for the survival of the child, i say huh. See had it not happened in the man's presence, I would have suggested they keep the child. But since it was in the mans presence, his wife was forcefully raped, and then here comes this potential .......... logically the man has every right to take whatever decision he wishes to take

[Amy N]

Poor woman!rape pregnancies can be quite traumatic and i understand why she wants to keep the baby but she has to consider her husband's decision and....i don't know this is difficult.She should just do the right thing.

[Smartfrank]

And the right thing is to save the life of the innocent child.

[ELDINO]

And the right thing is to save the life of the innocent child.

And live in agony for the rest of your life,with a product of RAPE.

[ELDINO]

The couple really need wisdom from heaven in making the right decision in this crucial moment of their lives.

[Smartfrank]

And live in agony for the rest of your life,with a product of RAPE.

product of rape or not he knows nothing and his life should not be a victim of any post rape decision.

[Smartfrank]

@eldino
that's right but remember that wisdom from heaven will never suggest murder as a solution no matter the situation

[Masterwhiz]

For the love of God LET THE CHILD LIVE!!!.

[Masterwhiz]

I don't think the child should be aborted at all. I know that the experience will be hard especially for the husband , but I also know that there is a power greater than hate and that is LOVE.

The couple should realise that the child is not at fault for choosing to come this way so they (especially the husband) should NOT TERMINATE the life of the innocent child and learn to love the child.

I understand that what I'm saying may be disputed but I think with the love of God in their hearts they can overcome anything. Worst case scenario should be that the couple should give up the child for adoption, or to a motherless babies home this is fa better than Killing the Child. Murder is a grievous crime against God and Humanity.

[ELDINO]

I don't think the child should be aborted at all. I know that the experience will be hard especially for the husband , but I also know that there is a power greater than hate and that is LOVE.

The couple should realise that the child is not at fault for choosing to come this way so they (especially the husband) should NOT TERMINATE the life of the innocent child and learn to love the child.

I understand that what I'm saying may be disputed but I think with the love of God in their hearts they can overcome anything. Worst case scenario should be that the couple should give up the child for adoption, or to a motherless babies home this is fa better than Killing the Child. Murder is a grievous crime against God and Humanity.

Well,i quite agree with you.