how to make a long distance relationship work

[sweetjulie]

http://hubpages.com/hub/how-to-make-long-distance-relationships-a-sucess

Today, many people are in a long distance relationship. Many peoples partner has traveled and others just met a new partner on the internet that lives miles away from them. Some are positive and have trust in there partner while others have lost hope and that’s frustrating. Here are few tips on how to maintain a long distance relationship.

•   Define your relationship; you wouldn’t like a situation whereby at the end of it all, after all the time and effort you put in the relationship, it didn’t work, or didn’t lead to marriage, therefore in order to avoid that, you should try and define your relationship, know if its what you really want and if the person is worth all the stress.

•   Communication; communication is the key to every relationship, even in long distance relationship. Technology has made it easier for us to communicate with love ones without having to waste too much money. In a long distance relationships, calling each other at least once in a day, sending instant messages to each other with details of how you spend your day every night, sending romantic emails and love letters to each other and also chatting through web cams will make it feel like you are together somehow.

•    Spend time together even when apart; there are many ways to spend time together with someone you are not with, like watching TV, watching a particular movie, listening to music or watching a show at the same time will help you fell you are together

•   Meet sometimes; the only reason we cope with a long distance relationship is because we know it wont last forever, so make time and see your partner

•   Keep the romance alive; do something special for each other

•   Avoid jealousy; jealousy is one of the things that break a relationship. When you see your partner with the opposite sex, even when someone told you your partner is cheating, be sure to ask him/her about it. Instead of assuming, ask and confirm things from your partner

Surprise your partner; everybody like surprises, pay your partner a surprise visit, surprise them in anyway you can.
Others are;

·         Trust each other

·         Be honest to each other

·         Always express your feelings

·         Stay positive

[F-GENESIS]

dis 1 wey relatnshp gist com storm dis ........

[ejibond]

speaking of longdistance relationship..trust dey hardly dey am o! especialy if d two meet tru internet or outernet...hw can u feel, wen u ve'nt even seen d subject yet?How can u trust wen u dnt even knw d lifestyle d subject is living?Mehn! no b smalltin oh.

[F-GENESIS]

speaking of longdistance relationship..trust dey hardly dey am o! especialy if d two meet tru internet or outernet...hw can u feel, wen u ve'nt even seen d subject yet?How can u trust wen u dnt even knw d lifestyle d subject is living?Mehn! no b smalltin oh.

abeg helep me told dem.

[ELDINO]

But oftentimes,it does workout!. But who said the road will be easy?

[Nigeria Scholar]

I no gbadu long distance relationship. It rearly work out well between d 2 people involved. My advise 2 u guyz is dat, even if u're engaged in a long distance relationship DO NOT PURE THE WHOLE OF YOUR HEART TO YOUR PARTNER.

[ELDINO]

@chinyxboy,don't u tink ur advise is SUICIDAL.Becos i tink posterity has a way of affecting our lives either way.

[Wando]

@ Eldino, very suicidal.

[ejibond]

D higher u go d harder u fall..d more u put ur mind in it d greater d heartbreak wen u discover...eehm....cough..

[Priscal]

nyce 1........

[adim2]

do you little children need an elderly advice?

[ELDINO]

do you little children need an elderly advice?

Yes papa,pls advise us lest they stray!

[ugo banks]

all it takes 4 a l d relationship 2 wor?.... both parties must have absolute trust in each other but its very difficult but it is possible!!!!!... d love and trust is all dat matters.

[adim2]

Yes papa,pls advise us lest they stray!

And that is the end of my story. lol

[Wando]

long distance relationships rarely work and the few which do work go the extra mile 2 achieve success in it.

[Amy N]

I LOVE long distance relationship,i get bored when i see a particular person everyday. 

[ELDINO]

long distance relationships rarely work and the few which do work go the extra mile 2 achieve success in it.

True talk!

[ELDINO]

I LOVE long distance relationship,i get bored when i see a particular person everyday. 

 That's true love,it makes the relationship wax stronger wit love,respect,trust.And holding ur partner in high esteem.

[ELDINO]

You see, distance shouldn't be a determining factor in a relationship.If the two partners  truely feel for each other,then they should be composed enough to respect what they feel for eachother.Who says they can't be communicating on phones,exchanging mails etc.

[Smartfrank]

You see, distance shouldn't be a determining factor in a relationship.If the two partners  truely feel for each other,then they should be composed enough to respect what they feel for eachother.Who says they can't be communicating on phones,exchanging mails etc.

true talk