why do men cheat

[sweetjulie]

in your own opinion, why do you think men cheat


http://hubpages.com/hub/10-reasons-why-men-cheat

They have grown out of love; most men cheat because they are no more in love with their spouse and do not know how to go about it. They are bored and tired of the relationship mostly because the woman has changed and she is no longer the woman they met and fell in love with. Most men are still married to their wife because they have to, and sometimes for the sake of their children.

They are no longer attracted to their partner [sexually]; some men cheat because they no longer see their spouse as beautiful. Their partner is no longer as beautiful, sexy and irresistible as they were when they started the relationship.

They don’t get enough sex; it is obvious that some women don’t give their man enough sex. They give excuses like being tired with the kids the whole day, or working all day, and when such man see an opportunity to have sex outside their home, it won’t be easy to resist.

They want to get revenge; some men cheat because their spouse has once cheated on them and they feels it’s the only way to get back at them.

They got away with it the last time; women have big hearts, so they forgive easily. Most men take advantages of this fact, knowing that their spouse will forgive them again and again when they get caught. All they have to do is say sorry.

Their sex life has become boring; their partner doesn’t try new things in bed. Has you all know, nobody likes eating a particular food all the time, even if it is your favorite meal. Therefore, most men cheat in order to maximum satisfaction in bed.

To boost their ego; sometimes, its not their spouse fault, they cheat just to boost their ego, just because it make them feel good. In this case, it doesn’t mean they don’t love their woman.

To escape home/office problem; most men cheat because they have a nagging wife, or a demanding boss, and the best way to clear their head is by cheating.

They can’t resist sex; almost all men can’t resist sex, and when the opportunity comes, they just fall.

They can’t commit; somemenfind it difficult to stay in a relationship with only one person, maybe because of what has happened to them in the past, and they don’t want to have their heart broken again, but they just cant.

[F-GENESIS]

I do know.

[gentleemmy]

hmmm, sweet julie again

[Masterwhiz]

To men of little moral fortitude, there are a myriad of reasons why they cheat, but essentially I believe that no matter what their their reasons are, they must always remember that they swore before God and man to love their spouses for better or worse and as such, going in the direction of promiscuity is a SIN againt The Almighty.

[Nigeria Scholar]

Hello sweetjulie, you have said it all. Right now i'm speechless. I don't know what to say concirning this topic. But, i have one question to ask you all. Do you think it's possible for a man to be 100% faithful to his spouse?

[Smartfrank]

To men of little moral fortitude, there are a myriad of reasons why they cheat, but essentially I believe that no matter what their their reasons are, they must always remember that they swore before God and man to love their spouses for better or worse and as such, going in the direction of promiscuity is a SIN againt The Almighty.

what if they are not married?

[ejibond]

@sweetjulie...u sound as if ur man has cheated on u b4 making u to believe dat all men are dsame. dat make's u to develop so much interest in posting dis..Wel let me put it 2u dat not all men cheat @their spouse &nt all men fall into temptation.It all depend on d kind of lifestlye d subject has being leavin frm his/her childhood to adulthood,d way they are being brought up also plays an important role in dis.
@Chinxboy..to d question u asked,yes a man can be infact more than 100% faithful 2 d wife it all depend on d man's lifestyle.Dat's y it is very important we study our partners character b4 attepting 2 make or accept proposal.D holybook(BIBLE) has already made us understand dat, it is sex after marriage not seX b4 marriage.A man/woman dat demands 4 sex b4 marriage may likely to cheat after marriage.So,we shud stop practising medicine after death all in d name of love is blind...I DON TALK MA OWN FINISH..

[gentleemmy]

@ Poster u are right!!!

Do you think it's possible for a man to be 100% faithful to his spouse?

It is very possible. It is as possible as always putting food into your mouth everytime you eat.

[ELDINO]

Hmnnnnn! What a world.**shakes head**

[ejibond]

@ Poster u are right!!!

Right about what??

[ELDINO]

Staying faithful to your partner is a personal decision.And it's sustained by saying no to,and avoiding things that will lure you to BETRAYAL.

[kabuore]

Men that cheat are nothin bt peanut brains...... is so annoying.. GUSH

[Wando]

Y is every1 hammering on the men? I'd like 2 ask; is it only the men that do cheat? How about the ladies?

[gentleemmy]

Y is every1 hammering on the men? I'd like 2 ask; is it only the men that do cheat? How about the ladies?

Gud question wando!!!

This shouldn't be a one-sided discussion or is the question based on the article?

[ELDINO]

I quite agree wit @wando &@gentleemmy,it's understood that men do cheat their partners.Likewise the ladies.So it should be a balance thread 4 discussion,and stop beating about the bush.

[kabuore]

hey sorry oh if am being one - sided... bt i was jst replyin to d topic.
@gentlemmy why did u change ur pic
@eldino what do u mean by beating ard d bush

[ELDINO]

@kabuore,my comment is not a counterpost directed to urs or ur person.It's generally about the thread,i hope ur temperament is not on the high side.CHEERS!!

[Wando]

Where are the ladies? they should also answer "why ladies cheat?"

[ELDINO]

May be they are shying away from telling their own tales and inadequacies.

[Smartfrank]

They are scared